COUNSELING/CONSULTING INFORMATION AND RELATIONSHIP
1. Diagnostic Tools: I use helpful forms such as this Personal Data Information form and other aids to gain an understanding of the central problems a person is experiencing. The Bible is my frame of reference to understand and change human behavior.
2. Intent Listening: I encourage the client to speak his mind in an appropriate fashion and to discuss his thoughts, anxieties, resentments, and fears so that the consultant will have a clear understanding of the central problems.
3. Team Counseling: There may be times when a counseling situation may call for a team approach. In this event, I may have more than one consultant involved in a session. These consultants share insights and opinions with one another which pertain to the case.
4. Assignments: Clients make more rapid progress when they are required to study or to perform specific informational or behavioral assignments which pertain to the problem. I tailor these assignments to the individual and their circumstances.
5. Accountability: I am interested in believers learning how to experience the peace and joy that result from a walk of obedience to God’s Word, and I believe it is important to hold a client accountable for doing the assignments on schedule.
HOW LONG DOES BIBLICAL COUNSELING TAKE?
Biblical counseling will vary in the amount of time required according to the individual, his/her motivation, and the particular problem. On the average, however, the process requires far less time than conventional secular counseling. One reason is that Biblical counselors are not interested in prolonging the number of sessions. Simple problems are often solved in one or two sessions. Severe problems may require a longer period. Addressing marital issues may require as many as 12 to 18 sessions. Substance abuse (which in a Biblical context is understood as a worship problem, idolatry) problems may require many more sessions, with intensive accountability and follow-up.
ABOUT CONFIDENTIALITY
Usually anything discussed with your counselor/coach (Chilesa Ready) and all information on this Personal Data Form will be held in strict confidence. However, there are some situations that may have to be reported to appropriate authorities as required by law. This reporting may take place without your permission or knowledge. Reportable situations include, but may not be limited to, indications of bodily harm to self or others, involvement in a felony, suicidal intentions, and reasonable evidence/suspicion of child/elder/dependent abuse or neglect. Your counselor/coach may also be required to disclose information in response to a subpoena issued by a court of law. Your information will not be shared without your written consent except under legal obligation or for professional consultation. If approved by you in writing, information may be given to an advocate or family member.
Counseling/Consulting Agreement:
I understand that I am receiving Biblical counseling/coaching/consultation. I understand that Chilesa Ready is not a licensed therapist, psychologist, or licensed professional counselor.. I understand that at any time during the counseling process, for reasons sufficient to himself/herself, the counselor(s) or the client(s) shall have the option of terminating this agreement. I understand that information disclosed in sessions will be held confidential unless circumstances exist as indicated above requiring disclosure of information.
1. I am committed to changing my life by coming into obedience to the Word of God.
2. I will keep the appointment time or will call to cancel in advance with a legitimate reason.
3. I will fulfill the weekly assignments.
4. I will attend church each Sunday while I am in counseling.
5. I understand that sessions are confidential except in the circumstances as indicated above.
I have read the counseling agreement above and agree to enter a consulting relationship in accordance with it.
